In Memory of Richard Avery, RSW

It is with deep sadness that we share the passing of our colleague and friend, Richard Avery (RSW). Richard was a compassionate and dedicated professional who made a meaningful impact in the lives of many. We recognize that hearing this news may bring a wide range of emotions, and we want to acknowledge how important your work with Richard may have been.

Richard brought something truly special into every space he entered. After learning of his passing, our Clinical Director, Shane Smyth, connected with Richard’s clients—many of whom expressed a deep desire for their stories and experiences with him to be remembered and shared with his family. That kind of feedback doesn’t come from simply doing a job—it comes from making a real impact.

Time and time again, clients described Richard as someone who had a unique gift: the ability to connect deeply, meet people exactly where they were, and offer something profoundly meaningful—whether that was wisdom, compassion, or a perfectly timed laugh. A common theme emerged in the words shared by those he supported: that Richard was more than just a therapist—he was a person who made them feel truly safe and seen.

We also want to recognize Richard’s remarkable ability to connect across all kinds of differences—age, background, profession. It didn’t matter who you were; Richard met you with the same warmth, attentiveness, and care. He never positioned himself as an expert, but rather as a fellow human being—someone willing to walk alongside you, listen deeply, and hold space without judgment.

Within our team, Richard’s presence was equally profound. In meetings, he brought not just his clinical insight, but his full humanity. He reminded us it was okay not to have it all figured out, and that our struggles didn’t diminish our strength. There was never judgment in his presence—only compassion. He embodied what it means to lead with humility and heart.

His sense of humor, his perspective on life, and his small gestures of care live on in our team’s stories, in our practices, and in the values we strive to uphold each day. He showed us how to stay connected, how to carry the bond beyond the session, and—perhaps most profoundly—how to face grief with gentleness and grace.

We are better as individuals and as a team for having known Richard. And today, we honour him not only for the work he did, but for the extraordinary person he was.

With love and remembrance,

The Spacious Mind Counselling Team

Here are some resources that may be useful for you on the topic of grief:

• What’s Your Grief
• My Grief
• Grief
• Best Book about Grief